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Friday, January 25, 2013

1 month

Actually, it has been 5 weeks, but lets backtrack 5 days to January 20; one month after our sweet C's birthday.  So let's capture some of the things we have gone through during month one (and I'll do my best to keep this under 10000 words) so we don't forget this time, because let's be honest it is mostly a blur...we are truly blessed with a really healthy and talented baby (i'm sure everyone says/thinks this, but we really are).  she rolled over from her tummy to her back when she was 4 days old at the pediatrician's office.  she may have even been able to do it earlier, but i'm not sure we put her down for the first 4 days! our doctor, dr. good (which we love!), was impressed at this skill and said most babies can't pull that off until 3 or 4 months.  she flipped many more times, so it wasn't just a fluke! we do "tummy time" every day and for the most part she doesn't seem to hate it.

she likes getting her hair washed and brushed, the faces she makes while we do it are priceless.  we are slowly figuring out bathtime so it is enjoyable for all parties.  she sneezes and hiccups all the time.  she has at least 5 different cries, and one (which i think is just "talking") is so cute I just stare at her while she does it (i know, bad mom!).  big brother (rigsby) has really started to not only like her, but to watch over her and love on her.  he will stick his head in the pack and play at night at least once to make sure she is ok and he loves giving her "kisses" on the face and head.  we are so glad that they make a good pair, because we were a little nervous how he would transition to not being an only "child".

we have had CONSTANT visitors for the first month, but we love the time with friends and family.  i'm thankful we have so many people who want to see us and C (mostly C).

by the end of the first month, her head has become pretty stable and I'm glad you can pick her up without fearing that her head is going to fall off (kidding, mostly).  her hands, feet, eyes, ears, chin, and hair all take after daddy; while i get to claim nose and mouth!

she slept most of the day for the first week or two, but now she stays awake for long periods of time.  daddy went back to work after 3 weeks so it is just me and her during the day.  her most active time is between 9-12 during the day...i wish chuck got to see her more during this time, it is amazing how more alert and interactive she gets each day.



weight: 8 lbs, 14 ozs at the one month doctors appointment

height: somewhere between 21-22 inches depending on who you talk to.  chuck insists on 22"! let's put it this way, she no longer fits in newborn clothes length wise.

medical: healthy little baby.  she gets gassy sometimes, but who doesn't.  we are scheduled for a hip ultrasound at 6 weeks, but this is mostly protocol since she was born breech. the doc thinks her hips feel great.  we love seeing the doc, and so far it has been more than pleasant getting in and out of the office

sleep: she is a really great sleeper.  from the time we brought her home (with the exception of the first night), she has slept 3-4 hour increments with an occasional 5 or 6 hours spurt.  she is sleeping in the pack and play in our room.  at night, i lay in bed and nurse her until she is asleep, then we swaddle and go to bed (no pacifier yet).  she usually puts herself right back to sleep.

clothes/diapers: she outgrew newborn clothes after 3 weeks (lengthwise), her feet and legs were about to bust the seams.  some 0-3 stuff is still too big, but we are wearing it anyways.  still in newborn size diapers.  we started transitioning to cloth after her stump fell off at 3 weeks and so far, so good.  it will be awhile before we go full time cloth, especially since we have about 100 newborn diapers left.  (i need to do a whole post on cloth diapering and my thoughts on it)

diet: exclusively breastmilk, and thankfully both her and I like it.  we have had very little issues.  I bought a pump after a week or two, but I hate it and I haven't really found my groove with it...I may just have to take off work until she weans :)

milestones: first bath, first time rolling front to back, first walk in the stroller

likes: the swing AKA the lifesaver!, propping up in the boppy pillow, getting hair washed and brushed, sleeping on daddy's chest, getting to "ride" in the sling/carrier, walks (or anything outside)

dislikes: diaper changes (or being naked in general)

mommy: my surgery recovery lasted for a week or so.  i felt pretty good about 5 days after birth, and felt really good 14 days after birth.  after 2 weeks i had lost 18 of my 27 pounds and i haven't weighed since.  breastfeeding is going well.  i have only left the house once or twice without her and i instantly want to go back home! i have shocked myself and others with my "mommy instincts" we must remember that I had never even changed a diaper until C was born.  so far, so good!

Friday, January 18, 2013

First baths

We've technically had 2 first baths...first was the sponge bath and then was the real tub bath.  I'll cover them both in this post.

We tackled the first sponge bath 2 or 3 days after we came home...yes, you heard that right.  Chuck let our baby go 3 days without a bath (and that is assuming that she got bathed in the nursery...which is questionable).  I guess we were both putting it off because A) we had no clue what the heck we were doing and B) we didn't know how it would go. and truth be told, the first bath was a bit of a scream fest until we got to the hair part...turns out she is a bit of princess when it comes to the shampoo...she LOVES getting her hair watched
Miserable...and our half ass attempt at keeping her warm while we bathed
shampooing bliss
After the cord stump finally fell off, we broke out the super duper deluxe baby bath that was gifted to us.  we were really looking forward to the tub bath, but again it didn't turn out just the way we hoped.  SHE HATED IT.  I'm proud to say that we have made improvements, although we are still not 100% loving bath time...hopefully we will get there.

hating the bath
but regardless of the bathing experiences...she looks so dang cute in her hooded towels that I am committed to keep trying...just so I can see her in the towels (oh, and because personal hygiene is desirable trait..)


Thursday, January 17, 2013

4 week photo dump

now that we are starting to fall back into a routine (HA!) I am going to try and start posting more regularly.  as for today, I'm just going to dump a bunch of pictures from the first 4 weeks.  Neither Chuck nor I have gotten pictures off our phones yet, and that is probably where the majority of the pictures are...but here are several from the camera!







oh, and we had newborn pictures taken by Jennifer Wilkerson (Wilkerson Photography) when she was a week old, without spoiling all the good ones before we do anything with them, here is a sneak peek...


i could eat her!!!!! i will most more this week...i promise

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

39 weeks, 6 days...introducing...

Charlee Jane Spearman, a true baby genius!
mommy and daddy's angel
12/20/12 at 12:57, Charlee entered the world through c-section.  I was a ball of nerves leading up to the procedure, but it literally all melted away when I saw that face (cliche, I know).  She weighed in at 7 lbs even (6 lbs, 15.9 ozs to be exact) and 20 inches long.  She is happy, healthy, and quickly became fond of eating!
We've been home since Saturday, and were thrilled to get to share her first Christmas here at home with family!


 Big brother is still getting used to the idea of not being an only child, but I'm pretty sure he loves her.
"what is this thing??"
She will be one week old tomorrow, I'm already sad at how fast time flies! Thankfully we have spent most of the week holding and spoiling her and spending as much time staring at her as possible.  Hopefully I will update better now that she is here than I did during pregnancy, but don't count on it.

Sunday, December 16, 2012

makings of the nursery : FINAL REVEAL

the nursery is done! as in, every single thing that is going in there, is in there.  and right in time! you've seen the progress along the way, but just as a reminder, here is a before:
before: day 1 of construction 

we were too excited to hang crown molding and wainscoting to take a good "before"
and now, the finished product...complete with a thousand pictures:
 bedding from etsy; hand sewn blanket and pillows by me; string name art DIY by me
 ikea light fixture; poof ottoman from etsy; hand sewn curtains from Charlee's Nana (Martha)
 fabric lamp shade DIY by me; black and white maternity pictures printed by walgreens (mod podged by me)...I may post more on this later...I LOVE how these turned out
 book shelves built, hung, and painted by chuck; bedding from etsy (blanket and pillows sewn by me)
 ikea storage bins currently holding butt creams, hair accessories, and pacifiers; mirror from homegoods (painted by Chuck)
 gallery wall: framed fabric and printouts DIY by me (i need to post some close ups of these)
 
monogrammed lamb from Aunt Allison! LOVE!

and there you have it! a mostly DIY coral and aqua nursery for our little girl.  i approached the project with no "theme" but clearly found some fabrics i loved and rolled with them.  i'm hoping she can love the colors and fabrics in this room for a long time to come.  i absolutely adore every single thing in this room and i can't wait to sit in there with her and rock her to sleep and read her books! if i knew how to photoshop i swear this room is magazine worthy...even if i am biased, it kicks ass!

Friday, December 14, 2012

38 weeks!!

How far along? 38 weeks, 1 day
 
Total weight gain: 27 lbs
  
Maternity clothes? YES! but i much prefer oversized t shirts and sweat pants

Stretch marks? not yet, not sure how

Sleep: starting to wake up several times a night...several
 
Best moment this week:  turning in all of my leave at work for maternity leave...STARTS next week! 
Wedding rings on or off? On! 

Happy or Moody most of the time: pretty happy
Miss Anything? being able to put on socks...

Movement: everyday! 
 
Food cravings:  sweets, all the time. 
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: nope

Gender: little precious GIRL

Labor Signs: not yet, i'm hoping soon
Symptoms: nothing major at this point...just being huge
Belly Button in or out? OUT!!   

Looking forward to: meeting my baby
 
Other: looking forward to having a healthy baby soon!

Monday, December 3, 2012

36 weeks, 4 days...i know i suck at this updating thing

How far along? 36 weeks, 4 days
 
Total weight gain: I have NO clue, i seriously haven't been to the gym in 2 weeks.  It was 27 lbs at the doctor the other day, but I had on boots that I didn't take off...they have to weigh 2 or 3 lbs...RIGHT?!?!?!
  
Maternity clothes? YESYESYES

Stretch marks? not yet, not sure how

Sleep: this is definitely not improving, but i'm still sleeping
 
Best moment this week:  the shower we were thrown at work, i'm continually amazed that people actually like us enough to share in this experience with us....they may not, but they fake it well! 
 
Wedding rings on or off? On! 

Happy or Moody most of the time: I haven't been moody in a long time, i'm just a bit "down" lately...
Miss Anything? being comfortable

Movement: everyday! 
Food cravings:  sweets, all the time. (like the godiva chocolate cake I have been working on since thanksgiving, peppermint stick ice cream, pumpkin spice cookies with caramel frosting....)
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: nope

Gender: little precious GIRL

Labor Signs: Nope, the Braxton Hicks contractions are starting to pick up...i have no clue if that means anything or not

Symptoms: indigestion! (i live on tums), and general discomfort, and BH contractions

Belly Button in or out? OUT!!   

Looking forward to: a normal sized uterus.  meeting this little girl, it is incredibly real now, as in...will happen. SOON.
 
Other: we took maternity pictures a couple of weeks back, I'm hoping to get those back in time to get some christmas cards out, but don't judge me if they turn into New Years/Valentines day cards!  Breech baby watch 2012 still continues...at this point we are hoping for a flip but expecting to have to bring her into the world via c section.

I'll post pictures soon...